Hey Shopaholic, Ready for a Shopping Detox? 🛍️➡️🧘

Lindsey Briscoe
3 min readOct 12, 2023

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Shopaholic

Hey there, fellow retail warrior!

Ever felt that rush when snagging that “last” pair of shoes in your size during a sale?

Yep, we’ve all been there.

But what if I told you there’s a way to feel even better without maxing out your credit card?

Diving into the Shopaholic’s Closet (It’s Huge, We Know!)

  1. Why Do We Shop ’Til We Drop?

Let’s face it, shopping can be like that comforting tub of ice cream after a bad day.

But instead of calories…. we’re racking up bills, or spending money that we could be investing to make out later years WAAAAYYYY better!

It’s not just about the shoes, bags, or that fancy gadget; it’s about filling an emotional shopping cart.

But guess what? There are other (cheaper) ways to feel fabulous!

2. The Real High

Shopping might give us that quick dopamine hit (similar to eating a whole chocolate cake in one sitting 🍰). But imagine a happiness that lasts longer and doesn’t come with buyer’s remorse or added inches to your waistline!

What might that look like?

We all have different stories, motivations and “validations”, so, what story do you tell yourself?

How would it look if you changed that story?

3. Digging Deeper

Before we toss out those shopping bags, let’s play detective.

What’s driving us to that 3 AM online shopping spree? Stress? Boredom? The thrill of a sale?

Pinpointing the “why” is like finding that missing sock in the laundry — it’s oddly satisfying when you find it — but massivly frustrating in the search!

Your Roadmap to Retail Recovery (and Real Joy!)

  1. Minimalism is the New Black

Ever heard of minimalism?

If you’ve missed this — then Ireally need to know what rock you’ve been hiding under!

It is, as you doubtless know — the art of owning fewer things but cherishing them more.

Think of it as your wardrobe detox — less clutter, more classics — and the best part?…..It’s always in season!

2. Swap Shopping with…

….something that’s NOT another adiction!

Next time you’re itching to hit ‘Add to Cart’, how about sketching, dancing, or even belting out your favorite tunes? (Shower concerts, anyone? 🎤)

These are calorie-free, wallet-friendly, and guaranteed to uplift your spirits.

3. Phone a Friend

[Prefably not one that shares you’re desire to shop!]

If you’re battling the urge to splurge? Call a buddy, join a support group, or even chat with your pet.

They might not share your shoe size, but they sure know how to listen.

4. Practical Magic

Let’s sprinkle some practicality into our lives.

Draft a budget (not the most fun, I know, but bear with me), understand your debts, and make mindful spending choices.

I’m a bit of a spreadhseet addict myself and find it really satisfying to see the fruits of my shop free labour manifect into ever increasing numbers in the spreadsheet — especially if you add in compound interest…..money not spent today is soooooo much more tomorrow!

If you’re feeling tech-savvy, or even if you’re not so much, it’s probably time to hit ‘Uninstall’ on those shopping apps.

Trust me, your phone will feel lighter!

Wrapping It Up (Not a Gift, Sorry!)

Breaking up with shopping might seem daunting, but imagine a life where happiness isn’t tagged with a price.

A life where joy is genuine, long-lasting, and doesn’t come in a box. Ready to embark on this fabulous journey?

Your real, unboxed happiness awaits, and the best part is that what you’ve been “shopping” for has been inside you this whole time!

P.S. This isn’t an anti-shopping manifesto. It’s just a nudge towards finding deeper, more lasting joy. And who knows? Maybe the next time you shop, it’ll be for experiences, not just stuff!

Read more : 29 Tips For The Recovering Shopaholic

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Lindsey Briscoe
Lindsey Briscoe

Written by Lindsey Briscoe

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